when u want to do something, ask yourself this...
after i do this, then what?
people always regret about their action, because they did not think thoroughly of their action.
for example, u want something. let say, a pair of new shoes. so you have decided which one you want. but you don't decide why you want it. you buy it, then what? you will regret it because it doesnt fit your lifestyle, u can hardly use it, and the money u used should be spent on somethings else more important.
they do think about something to overcome their existing problem... but they forget to think of it consequences... and most of the time, it is regrettable later...
and in my opinion that is why some people end up as criminal...
my friend is a very detailed person, he always thought of what happen if one action is taken. he will come up with lots of possibilities. and it always lead to a better solution. he is a total contradict of who am i. i take things simpler. i thought of a plan and hope it might work. well, most of the time, they are not.
so, this question is a method to avoid you from making bad decisions that you will regret for your whole life.
after i post this, then what?
after u read this, then what?
Psoriasis 2018
6 years ago
3 comments:
Salam n good day!!
Mm..basically, you tend to take more risk then your frenz, isn't it?
I think,every risk you take is worthwhile.you do learn frm it, but sometime u overlook it n end up thinking tht wht a useless act have u done.
Once, when you have done something, you cannot change it.thts the fact. and Allah always give wht's the best for His creation.
So,regret it, but dont spend much time on it. You might miss the bus!^_^
being superconscious about action taken is a risk itself, risk of being mentally disctracted due to over-activities in the brain.
(u might end up as being mentally challenged person), however , i do agree on a point where we need to fork out reliable possiblities and consequences into account before deciding something.
every decision made in our life today is very integral to the next day. comfort factor. but then, at the end of the day, when things doesnt work out, we shoeld always resort to positive thinking. =)
I missed this two comments from 2 lovely lady?? OMG! it have been there for about 8 months without me realizing it, sorry girls.
And thanks for the comments.
Versusme:
yeah, some time i am just careless.
thx for your advice. It is useful for time like this :p
the bus have not arrive yet :p
Dish:
everyday we are mentally challenged, don't you think so?
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